So now his excuse: he doesn’t want me to meet his son until after the probation is lifted because the crazy ex could say or do anything to have him thrown back in jail if she knew about me. Is that just a lame excuse or does he have a valid point? — Wanting to Meet the Son
May is less than six weeks away. Can’t you wait a little longer? Are you seriously going to make a big deal about this? Why? What’s the point? Your boyfriend had to spend a night in jail. He had to wear an ankle monitor for three months and has been on probation for almost a year. His ex wouldn’t let him in the house to pick up his son for his (I’m assuming) court-sanctioned visitation/custody. And you’re going to question whether the situation with the ex is extreme enough to warrant your boyfriend being cautious about dragging you in? You’re going to pick on him about having to wait a few more weeks to meet his son? You need to chill, follow your boyfriend’s lead, and respect the boundaries he’s put in place to protect his son, himself, his relationship with his son, and you.
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