Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

Dear Wendy

The love of my life for the past twenty-plus years, “Irene,” has gray hair coming in on both sides of her head. I have asked her to color her hair and take the gray out. She has accommodated me at times in the past, but recently she stopped doing it and said she was upset… Read More

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Feeling Guilty For Walking Away,” who was feeling guilty about walking away from her friend in an abusive marriage. “After… Read More

I’ve recently come back from a vacation with my girlfriend, Louise. I’ve never gone away with a woman before so it was a new experience for me. I’m 47 and have always struggled with intimate relationships. She’s 44 but was married briefly in her 20s. We’ve been dating for nearly six months, seeing each twice… Read More

Happy Friday, everyone! And happy birthday to me — I’m 41 today, eek. I got a massage today and a manicure, and I’m having a taco dinner with my fam tonight and dinner out with friends tomorrow to celebrate, and I’m feeling very loved, incredibly fortunate and — ok, I’ll say it — “blessed,” but… Read More