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His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. I just read your responses to “Does My Virginity Turn Guys Off?” from a few years ago. It was great advice, tailored for a young woman who was 20. I am a woman who just turned 28. Though I am not [...]

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His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. I had this guy friend in high school and we could never date because we were always with other people. He went off to the Army and I went to college. Four years later now, we have been talking again. It [...]

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His Take: “He Never Wants to Have Sex With Me”

His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. We live together and get along great on a daily basis, but we have no romantic or intimate life. He was romantic when we first met, to win me over I [...]

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His Take: “How Long Can We Keep Sexting?”

His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. I'm curious how long it would take for two people who sorta know each other, but live on opposite sides of the country, who are into sexting each other, to finally start to get bored of it? Months? Years? They will [...]

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I'm posting this letter as a "Your Turn," without commentary from me, but LW asked specifically for guys' perspective on this question, so while you women are welcome to chime in, I'd love to hear a chorus of men's voices tell her what's what. I'm a Japanese girl who recently dated a 27-year-old doctor I [...]

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His Take: “Does He Want Me Back?”

His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. My ex and I dated for three years and then on-and-off for another three years after that. He broke it off claiming he needed space and fell out of love with me because I drove him to the edge. (I would [...]

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His Take: “Am I Just His Booty Call?”

His Take questions are answered by our panel of smart, opinionated, and funny dudes. About seven months ago I met this guy on Craigslist and became, well, sex buddies. Of course over the next few months, I wanted to get to know him more and start building a friendship. He agreed to it, but every [...]

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His Take: He’s Seducing Me With More Than Words

After a brief hiatus, His Take is back! Let's see how the guys handle this one: Three years after our breakup, my ex-boyfriend found me on match.com and sent me a message. We wrote back and forth for a little bit and then we started texting over Thanksgiving. After a few weeks I got frustrated [...]

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His Take: “Does My Virginity Turn Guys Off?”

I have never had a boyfriend or dated or did anything like that — not even a fling. All through high school I watched my friends drool over boys, get chased, be chased and partake in all the normal high school romance shenanigans. It's not that I don't like guys — I do — but [...]

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His Take: “Should I Remain Friends With My Ex?”

My boyfriend and have been dating just under a year. We're both in our early 30s, and we're both divorced (I have one child, he has none). We've been fighting recently, and one night, after a particularly frustrating exchange over the phone, I told him I thought we needed to take a step back from [...]

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His Take: “Did He Just Want Me for Sex?”

I just came out of my first serious relationship about six months ago and have begun dating again. Instantly, I really connected with this one guy at work. (We're both post-grad minions, so it's not too scandalous.) We would text ALL the time, go to dinner and movies, hang out with his mom...basically dating without [...]

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His Take: “He Follows Random Chicks on Instagram”

I've been seeing this great guy for almost six months and we are officially boyfriend/girlfriend. I've noticed, though, that in his Instagram profile that, in addition to a few friends, he follows about 10 or so random chicks who post provocative photos of themselves, as well as and photographers who post sexy (yet tasteful) photos [...]

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His Take: “Should I Find a New FWB?”

When I was in college in 2006 I met a senior whom I had one class with and we ended up chatting before and exchanging numbers. However, after that he graduated neither of us bothered to pursue the friendship. Fast forward to three years ago we got in contact through a social media site and [...]

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I broke up with my boyfriend in June after five years, and now he has a new girlfriend. I felt we lost the flame and things weren't what they used to be and i was no longer happy so I ended it but now he frequently posts on Facebook about how you know when you [...]

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His Take: “Do All Guys Go to Strip Clubs?”

I'm 30 years-old and I had a fight with my boyfriend of two years; I told him I didn't want to see him or speak to him until I was ready. We have since made up and our relationship seems like it's brand new, butterflies and all... BUT yesterday he was at his second job [...]

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