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Two recent studies from two different countries suggest that women are more attracted to men when they’re holding a guitar. I, for one, do not discriminate, and if the man is, say, Ryan Gosling, I will be attracted to him whether he’s holding a guitar, a ukelele, or my gaze from across a crowded subway platform (What? Crazier things have happened! Drew would understand).
A study in France published just this week featured a 20-year-old man “previously evaluated as having a high level of physical attractiveness” who approached 300 women aged 18-22 in a French urban shopping district one Saturday afternoon. He introduced himself, told each woman he thought she was pretty, and then asked for her phone number. For a third of these encounters, he carried a guitar case, for another third, he held a gym bag, and the remaining third he was empty-handed. [Click to continue]
by Wendy on May 8, 2013
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If you’ve ever wanted to join the mile high club, Virgin Airlines has now made your desire a little easier. The company announced a new service to help passengers “get lucky,” allowing passengers to discreetly send a drink to another passenger with a simple touch of a button. Fliers can even send a text message to the recipient through the in-flight service. Virgin America boss Sir Richard Branson said the chances of “deplaning with a plus one are at least 50 percent.” Let’s just hope that’s all they deplane with.
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by Wendy on April 25, 2013
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Hi, everyone. I’ve been away from my computer all morning with Jackson and am just now catching up on the day’s news, as well as the forums, etc. (today’s posts were pre-schedules, so my apologies if they seemed insensitive given the events in Boston at the moment). Some of our Boston readers, who are on lockdown, requested an open thread on the main page to connect with each other a little more easily and keep everyone abreast on what’s going on from their standpoint. Please feel free to send well-wishes here. We’re thinking of you, Bostonians. Stay safe!!
by Wendy on April 19, 2013
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Jackie Samuel, a 29-year-old single mother and college student in Rochester, New York, has discovered an interesting way to make a buck: she charges people to cuddle with her. Yes, she’s a “professional cuddler.” She calls her business “The Snuggery” — I guess “The Cuddle Bunny’ was already taken — and charges strangers $60 an hour to cuddle with her in her home. She does impose a rule banning clients from touching any part of her body covered by underwear, which begs the question: is kissing allowed?? What about ear-nibbling? Hair-pulling? And what happens when a client gets a boner?
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by Wendy on November 6, 2012
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