Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

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Related to our earlier conversation about sex in committed relationships and keeping the spark alive, there’s an article in the New York Times this week all about how to have a better relationship, with a big emphasis on sex in committed relationships. It’s full of interesting statistics, tips, and tidbits. For example, there are six… Read More

There was a plea on the other day for people in committed relationships to be more revealing and forthcoming about what sex in their relationships is like. “Our reluctance to talk honestly about sex in committed relationships can reinforce problematic myths,” the Vogue writer argued. “There is a lot of information about dating, but… Read More

In the forums, we’ve been discussing favorite holiday traditions, but since October only just began, I thought it would be fun to talk fall. That’s right — it’s decorative gourd season, motherfuckers! Do you all have favorite fall traditions and activities or events you look forward to every year? I have a few… Every Friday… Read More

Me, looking ahead on the morning of my 30th birthday. There was a wonderful Ask Polly column last week that addressed aging and whether it truly does “get better” as we get older. The letter-writer asked Polly: “Do you feel better now than you did in your 20s? Does anything make more sense? […] Do… Read More