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Updates: “Pregnant and Worried About Work” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pregnant and Worried About Work" who was worried about how her boss would react to her pregnancy news since he [...]

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Updates: “Money Matters in Love”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Money Matters in Love" who started a big discussion when she asked: "In your relationship, who pays for what when [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from 20-year-old "In Love with a Recovering Addict" who wrote in in July after she found the site "while Googling if [...]

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Updates: “Late-Bloomer?” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from Late-Bloomer? who wasn't particularly interested in dating men OR women and wasn't worried about that until her friends started making [...]

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Updates: “Just My Name” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Just My Name," the woman who was in an open relationship with an older man who refused to call her [...]

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Updates: “Subsidized and Confused” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Subsidized and Confused" who didn't tell her live-in boyfriend that she used her parents' credit card to book their flights [...]

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Updates: “Gigi Responds”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from Gigi, the swinger in an open relationship who was considering sleeping with a man whose wife was unable to have [...]

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Updates: “Jilted” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Jilted" whose live-in boyfriend called off their June wedding and immediately found a new girlfriend. Jilted wrote: "We still live [...]

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Updates: “Plus 1 OK?” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Plus 1 OK?" who lives abroad and was planning a trip back to the states with her boyfriend that coincided [...]

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Updates: “Engaged in a Gender Bender”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Engaged in a Gender Bender" whose fiancé confessed to her that he was "really considering a sex change." "She wrote [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pregnant and Miserable in Mississippi" who had been emotionally (and physically) abandoned by a long-time friend after she got pregnant [...]

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Updates: “Confused Mom and Girlfriend” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Confused Mom and Girlfriend" whose boyfriend of a year was feeling jealous of and threatened by the LW's co-parenting relationship [...]

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Updates: “Vegas Bride Responds”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Vegas Bride" who wondered if she was obligated to invite her family to the elopement she dreamed of having in [...]

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Updates: “Unsure, Myself” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Unsure, Myself" who wrote it way back in May of 2011 asking for advice about whether she should move on [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Hurt By Parents’ Generosity," whose parents bought her sister a house but gave her nothing. Keep reading to see what's [...]

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