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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Hurt By Parents’ Generosity," whose parents bought her sister a house but gave her nothing. Keep reading to see what's [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Married to Someone Else’s Baby Daddy" whose husband cheated on her shortly before they were married and got a woman [...]

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Updates: “Not Into Her New Man” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Not Into Her New Man" who was worried that her friend was being taken advantage of when she began dating [...]

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Updates: “Missing Hello Kitty” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Missing Hello Kitty" the woman in Germany whose military boyfriend moved back to the states. She visited him a few [...]

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Updates: “Second Guessing” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Second Guessing" who broke up with a boyfriend she wasn't completely sure was "the one" when he told her he [...]

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Updates: “Trying to Move On” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Trying to Move On" who was considering breaking up with her friend of ten years, Kate, after she continued to [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Have Ring, Need More Compromise" who could not agree on where to live with his girlfriend of 4-1/2 years. She [...]

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Updates: “Just My Name” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Just My Name" who wrote last week about the non-exclusive relationship she was engaging in with an older man who [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Stuck in a Limbo Divorce," the 40-something woman who was going through a divorce when she met a man online [...]

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Updates: “Married 25 Years” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Married 25 Years," whose husband didn't want to take her to his assistant's wedding. Keep reading for a fast update. [...]

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Updates: “Love Me, Love My Dog” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Love Me, Love My Dog" whose new boyfriend was jealous of her dog. "He is often moody and will regularly [...]

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Updates: “Wedding Gate” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Wedding Gate" whose friend verbally attacked her at their mutual friend's wedding. The friend sent an "I'm sorry, not really [...]

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Updates: “Mad at Brother” Responds

Warning: the following column contains rape themes that may be a sensitive topic for some readers. It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Mad at Brother" whose [...]

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Updates: “Not My Mother’s Keeper” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from Not My Mother’s Keeper who was feeling pressured by some family members to invite her estranged mother, who physically and [...]

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Updates: “Scared of His Brother” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Scared of His Brother" whose boyfriend wouldn't kick out his violent, alcoholic brother who was staying with them. First of [...]

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