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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Repeatedly Rejected By Niece,” the woman who was debating whether to attend her niece’s wedding in another state despite their [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Mother of the Bride, Daughter of the Uninvited" whose daughter was not inviting her grandmother, the LW's mother, to her [...]

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Updates: “Wants a Second” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Wants a Second" who desperately wanted a second baby while her husband did not. "He’s thought a lot about it [...]

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Updates: “Just Not Feeling It” Responds (Again)

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Just Not Feeling It,” a woman who originally wrote in when, in her late-30s, she wasn't feeling much passion for [...]

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Updates: “Zero Love” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Zero Love" who was annoyed that her childhood friend, whom she'd drifted apart from, was crashing her weekly tennis date [...]

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Updates: “Pissed At His Family” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pissed At His Family" whose boyfriend's family accused him of theft after he retrieved some items from his recently deceased [...]

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Updates: “Pregnancy Hopeful” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pregnancy Hopeful," a woman who wondering the best way to tell her infertile sister that she was planning to get [...]

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Updates: “Plus One Required” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Plus One Required," the woman in a wheelchair who wondered if she could ask for a plus-one to a wedding [...]

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Updates: “Bridesmaid No More” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Bridesmaid No More" who was asked to be her friend's bridesmaid and then heard nothing more about it for months. [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Thinking About Skipping Sister’s Wedding" who was, as the sign-off suggests, thinking about skipping her sister's wedding. The wedding was [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Totally Over It Bridesmaid” who was wondering whether there was a way she could get out of being a bridesmaid [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "One in a Long String of Girlfriends" who was worried after learning that her 55-year-old boyfriend had lied to her, [...]

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Updates: “One Dress, Two Dress” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "One Dress, Two Dress" who had to drop out as a bridesmaid in her friend's wedding when her due date [...]

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Updates: “Assumed Guilty” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Assumed Guilty," whose friend asked her to be bridesmaid and then rescinded the offer and acted like it was the [...]

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Updates: “Lied To” Responds (Again)

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Lied To” who discovered that her husband had been pursuing another woman. “He insists that he didn’t sleep with her,” [...]

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