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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pregnant and Miserable in Mississippi" who had been emotionally (and physically) abandoned by a long-time friend after she got pregnant [...]

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Updates: “Confused Mom and Girlfriend” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Confused Mom and Girlfriend" whose boyfriend of a year was feeling jealous of and threatened by the LW's co-parenting relationship [...]

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Updates: “Vegas Bride Responds”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Vegas Bride" who wondered if she was obligated to invite her family to the elopement she dreamed of having in [...]

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Updates: “Unsure, Myself” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Unsure, Myself" who wrote it way back in May of 2011 asking for advice about whether she should move on [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Hurt By Parents’ Generosity," whose parents bought her sister a house but gave her nothing. Keep reading to see what's [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Married to Someone Else’s Baby Daddy" whose husband cheated on her shortly before they were married and got a woman [...]

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Updates: “Not Into Her New Man” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Not Into Her New Man" who was worried that her friend was being taken advantage of when she began dating [...]

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Updates: “Missing Hello Kitty” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Missing Hello Kitty" the woman in Germany whose military boyfriend moved back to the states. She visited him a few [...]

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Updates: “Second Guessing” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Second Guessing" who broke up with a boyfriend she wasn't completely sure was "the one" when he told her he [...]

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Updates: “Trying to Move On” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Trying to Move On" who was considering breaking up with her friend of ten years, Kate, after she continued to [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Have Ring, Need More Compromise" who could not agree on where to live with his girlfriend of 4-1/2 years. She [...]

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Updates: “Just My Name” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Just My Name" who wrote last week about the non-exclusive relationship she was engaging in with an older man who [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Stuck in a Limbo Divorce," the 40-something woman who was going through a divorce when she met a man online [...]

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Updates: “Married 25 Years” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Married 25 Years," whose husband didn't want to take her to his assistant's wedding. Keep reading for a fast update. [...]

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Updates: “Love Me, Love My Dog” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Love Me, Love My Dog" whose new boyfriend was jealous of her dog. "He is often moody and will regularly [...]

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