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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Not Invited to the Wedding" who wasn't invited to her boyfriend's daughter's wedding despite having lived with her boyfriend for [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Not Interested in Their Wedding" whose BIL was planning a wedding to a woman the family didn't especially like (on [...]

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Updates: “To Keep it or Not” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "To Keep it or Not" who wrote in last week about her surprise pregnancy at 43 that she wasn't sure [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Step-mom In Over My Head!" whose pregnant stepdaughter was dropping serious hints that she wanted the LW to host an [...]

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Updates: “Having Doubts” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear a quick update from "Having Doubts" who was dating a man fifteen years her senior whose 17-year-old daughter had recently moved [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Parenting the Teens is Complicated" who was wondering how much to restrict and limit his 15-year-old stepdaughter's interaction with her [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Might Move for Love with 5-Year-Old Daughter" who, as her name suggests, was considering a move to NYC from Chicago [...]

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Updates: “No Visiting Hours” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "No Visiting Hours," the woman who wasn't allowed to visit her boyfriend after he was diagnosed with cancer and moved [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Totally Over It Bridesmaid" who was wondering whether there was a way she could get out being a bridesmaid for [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "One in a Long String of Girlfriends" who disapproved of her boyfriend's ex-wife being invited to his family's annual Christmas [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Conflicted About Moving Away From My Son" who was conflicted about whether he should move away from his 15-year-old son, [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Trying to Figure it All Out Ahead of Time" who had found the man she thought she might want to [...]

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Updates: “Repeatedly Rejected By Niece” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Repeatedly Rejected By Niece," the woman who was debating whether to attend her niece's wedding in another state despite their [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from two previous letter writers. The first is "Hit On By Her Husband" whose close friend's husband hit on her several [...]

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Updates: “Her Older Man” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Her Older Man," a 60-year-old man who had been dating a 34-year-old woman for nine years. The woman kept him [...]

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