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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Might Move for Love with 5-Year-Old Daughter" who, as her name suggests, was considering a move to NYC from Chicago [...]

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Updates: “No Visiting Hours” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "No Visiting Hours," the woman who wasn't allowed to visit her boyfriend after he was diagnosed with cancer and moved [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Totally Over It Bridesmaid" who was wondering whether there was a way she could get out being a bridesmaid for [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "One in a Long String of Girlfriends" who disapproved of her boyfriend's ex-wife being invited to his family's annual Christmas [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Conflicted About Moving Away From My Son" who was conflicted about whether he should move away from his 15-year-old son, [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Trying to Figure it All Out Ahead of Time" who had found the man she thought she might want to [...]

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Updates: “Repeatedly Rejected By Niece” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Repeatedly Rejected By Niece," the woman who was debating whether to attend her niece's wedding in another state despite their [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from two previous letter writers. The first is "Hit On By Her Husband" whose close friend's husband hit on her several [...]

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Updates: “Her Older Man” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Her Older Man," a 60-year-old man who had been dating a 34-year-old woman for nine years. The woman kept him [...]

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Updates: “Not Really a Wicked Stepmother” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Not Really a Wicked Stepmother," whose new husband's 12-year-old daughter was acting out toward her. The girl's mother was reinforcing [...]

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Updates: “Mommy Issues’ Girlfriend” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Mommy Issues’ Girlfriend," the woman whose boyfriend of a few months had expressed fantasies of killing his mother and was [...]

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Updates: “Infatuated with Married Boss” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from "Infatuated with Married Boss," the young woman who had developed a crush on her married boss after he'd been making [...]

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Tired of Being in the Closet in my Own Home," the woman whose live-in girlfriend hadn't told her 11-year-old son [...]

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Updates: “Pregnant and Worried About Work” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Pregnant and Worried About Work" who was worried about how her boss would react to her pregnancy news since he [...]

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Updates: “Money Matters in Love”

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from "Money Matters in Love" who started a big discussion when she asked: "In your relationship, who pays for what when [...]

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