Fetishes

[BradParticipant]

@mandalee, I saw 2 kids in college fucking in the back of the library when I was in college, so you could look into that. They were in the deserted section on a Friday evening so there wern’t a whole lot of people around (just the geeks like me that had no life…OK I actually wasn’t that bad, I had procrastinated a 15 page paper that was due monday, opps). I’m pretty sure my jaw dropped because she noticed me and actually winked! lol. Awkward! For a moment I thought I’d walked onto a porno set. So surreal… I was probably more embarrassed than she was. Poor old sheltered freshman me. I think it goes without saying I went to find a different area to study in.

[rachelParticipant]

Haha, I worked in my college library for 3 1/2 years and never caught anyone fucking. But, one of my three bosses did on multiple occasions. Like, he would be the most awkward person to catch someone, so somehow it was always him!

[AnnaParticipant]

*sad that Brad is prejudiced against blondes*

[Addie PrayParticipant]

@Will, I”m playing with my feet right now. Rubbing them together ever so softly…. (Did that turn you on?)

My ex-neighbor-lover tried to introduce ridiculous sex talk. The only think I could come up with was “your penis is so neat…. It’s really neat-o.” Fail. Maybe I am a bit of an exhibitionist though because when I think about it, I think it would be really fun to have sex in an office or on a plane. But I never have. I’m a wanna be exhibitionist.

[mandaleeParticipant]

@rachel, I worked in my college library too, so maybe that’s why I never tried it out. No one I worked with ever caught anyone having sex, but my manager did catch someone masturbating in the stacks once. Soooo awkward. Like he couldn’t make it to the bathroom? Haha

[rachelParticipant]

Um, dude, we went to the same college. Which one did you work in?

[BradParticipant]

I’m too tired to tell it right now, but remind me to share with you all the story of the Warwick Wacker.

[McLovinParticipant]

It might seem somewhat vanilla these days, but I’ve always had a thing for light bondage. Of course it’s a power – thing, and when it’s used along with orgasm denial it’s amazingly erotic, at least it is to me. Being able to control a womans orgasm has to be one of the most incredible feelings on earth. Taking her right to the edge, and learning when to slow down vs. when to stop completely is what I find most powerful because the ultimate goal is to make her want to cum so bad that she will literally beg me not to stop.

[rachelParticipant]

Well THAT’s hot

[Will.i.amParticipant]

@AP: haha. Real funny. I think it would be more of a turn on if I was there. Reading about it doesn’t get me like a visual. You are thinking in the right direction. I’ve had more sex in the last week than I can ever compare before. Six days straight with at least two sessions.

To perk some more interest, my partner really enjoys being tied up by my ties. So she got “hog tied” with her legs over my shoulders. The more and more explore this side of sex, the more and more I’m loving sex in my late 20s and not my early to mid 20s.

Next, I’m probably going to try some role playing. I actually want to be the whimsy kid who is taken advantage of by my superior. Every guy kinda has that fantasy. I feel sorry for my upstairs neighbor, because our floors are thin and i know her can hear, since I can hear him walk into the other room. I’m going to have to remedy that.

[CaraParticipant]

Meh, I read porn too. Mostly reluctance type stuff, like what Anna said. I did try light bondage and it´s fine, but nothing I really need. Light spanking is fine too. One guy once tried to choke me while we were going at it once, and it was hot, but he hadn´t cleared it beforehand so I was more angry ´cause that shit can be dangerous. (He did know that I was fine with him being rough though) That would be the same guy that “accidentally” put it in the backdoor. Yeah, I stopped sleeping with him after that. Although that wasn´t too bad either.

I´m pretty much a anything goes kinda person as far as milder fetishes are concerned. Foot fetish? not my thing, but woud do it.

Role-playing I can´t really get into, I like it in theory but I just get hyper-aware of what I´m doing and it takes me more out of the moment.

Not that any of this is relevant, because apparently I doomed for celibacy. It´s been months!!!

[Addie PrayParticipant]

@rachel, back off, mclovin is my new DW boyfriend!

[FabelleParticipant]

The e-mailing thing sounds like a good idea actually; I might do that with my boyfriend. I also like being talked to during sex/foreplay, & he never knows what to really say (although he’s getting better! I don’t need a constant stream of dirty talk, just certain phrases here or there…once he understood that, I think the pressure lessened)

@Cara I tend to read porn too, like the reluctance-type stuff you mentioned… if I look at anything, it’s usually just pictures– I don’t have the attention span for video at all, & with text, you can skim or skip parts more easily.

By the way, it’s cool hearing what people are into, thanks for starting this thread Will.i.am (pretty sure you’d hate my feet, though)

[Will.i.amParticipant]

@Fabelle: I’ve fooled around with women with not so cute feet in the past. I just didn’t mess with them, but they were very VANILLA in the act. Even when we would try to experiment with just a little dirty talk, they would be super embarrased. I messed around with one woman that could only get in touch with her sexual side when she was 3 sheets into the wind. You want to talk about disappointing.

I actually have a couple of friends that are really into the choking. I’m just not that into it, but I don’t mind putting my hand over a woman’s mouth.

The stuff I’ve tried over the last week has been very fun and errotic. I’ve kinda always been a traditional guy, but would hardly turn down request when asked. My second gf and I loved to have sex in public places. We had sex in a club parking lot one night. I have a buddy who’s had sex in a dressing room, which is something I want to try as well.

I really think I’m in some good months or years of my sex drive. I think mountain bike riding has really helped my stamina and my ability to want sex daily now. Thank you exercise!

[mandaleeParticipant]

@rachel- Yes we did! I transferred to PSU my sophomore year though, so I didn’t work at any of the UP libraries. I went to St John’s in Queens my first year and a half, and I worked in their main library. Which made the random masturbater all the much strange considering it was a Catholic university. lol

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