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SweetsAndBeats 10 months ago.
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I am in no way a dream interpreter, but I’ll play cuz it seems fun.
I think your hottie coworker disappeared because you don’t really see him as being much more than well, your hottie coworker and a potential rebound.
I think your ex ignored you because he spent a shit ton of time ignoring your feelings/wants/needs toward the end.
Grocery store…have you gone shopping recently? It’s also a nice, neutral, normal-ish place. I just googled it, and it says if it shows up in your dream you are lacking “some emotional or physical need.” Well, that speaks for itself. And it goes on to say that if the grocery store is full, it means you have lots of options/choices going on (house hunting…?).
I bet the grocery store was a perfect setting because all three represent (based on what you’ve shared here) a sort of “lacking” in your life. Hottie = hot hot sex
, Ex = duh, Mom = a true motherly figure.Haha, you’ll have to tease him and tell him he was in your dream
And yeah, this dry spell thing is so not awesome. I’m hitting close to the longest I’ve gone for a while, too, and don’t see the situation changing for a loooooong time. It’s so weird!I always have dreams about whales. Since I was a kid. It’s recurring. Usually, I am swimming with them or looking at them from above. And I feel like we are communicating in some strange, other-worldly way. I love whales, so that might be part of it… but, I love a lot of things that I don’t often dream about. So, I like to think it means something!
Although, some dreams are just plain effed up and I hope they are just my brain firing off random tidbits… and not actual meaning.
Anna, you’ve mentioned the tumultuous relationship with your family multiple times on DW. I wonder if it is just the part of you that wishes you could have a healthy relationship with them. You are longing for that special guy in your life (OMG, that sounds so cheesy!! LOL, sorry!). When you have a significant other, you probably look at him as your primary family, since you aren’t able to be close with your folks. And right now, maybe you feel a little like you don’t have a family because you are single. It is just that inner battle, expressing itself in your dream. Don’t be offended if I am way off!
But, at least you got to make out with a hot guy
SweetPeaG, I think you are right on about a couple things. When I was with my ex, I did think of him as my family since I’m not close to my biological family. Honestly, I’m not even sure how I ended up being related to them. And I do feel like I don’t have a family now that I’m single. Luckily I’m one of those people who doesn’t really mind being alone, but of course there’s something missing there.
I also think Michelle Lea is right about the fear of introducing a new guy to my parents, especially if it were the guy in the dream because he’s black and my parents are very ignorant racists. I don’t think he would run because I’ve told him all about my family and he’s told me about his too. Our families are actually very much alike. You end up talking about anything and everything when you spend 10-11 hour overnight shifts with someone in a nearly empty office.
I might tell him about the dream just to see his reaction. I don’t really see him as relationship material because he’s a workaholic who works two full time jobs a total of 20 hours a day. But I would definitely enjoy making out with him for a little fun.
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