Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

Friday Links

Here are a few things from around the web that may interest you:


“‘Cats Against Feminism’ Throws The Perfect Amount Of Shade At Anti-Feminists” [via Buzzfeed]

“A Response to ‘Women Against Feminism.’” [via I Wanted Wings]

“These Women Kept Their Maiden Names And This Was The Reaction” [via HuffPo]

“Marry me, Darling… for five years!” [via Gazette]

“On Moving in Together” [via A Practical Wedding]

For my fellow documentary lovers: “The 50 Best Documentaries Streaming on Netflix 2014” [via Paste Magazine]

“10 Toxic Relationships Mentally Strong People Avoid” [via The Mind Unleashed]

Weed weddings are a thing now: “A Toast? How About a Toke?” [via NYTimes]

“Once We Become Parents We Don’t Want to Hang Out With You Anymore (But Not for the Reasons You Think)” [via HuffPo]

“On Balancing Career and Family as a Woman of Color” [via National Journal]

I bought this swimsuit (but with pineapples instead of stars) a few weeks ago and LOVE it. There’s one left, if you’re looking for something for the waning days of summer. (Make sure to size up! I went up two sizes and the suit fits perfectly).

Thank you to those who submitted links for me to include. If you see something around the web you think DW readers would appreciate, please send me a link to [email protected] and if it’s a fit, I’ll include it in Friday’s round-up. Thanks!

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    jlyfsh August 1, 2014, 1:07 pm

    On changing your name after marriage, my grandmother (obviously this is a different era thing) thought that you had to. That there was a law or something that you had to change your name. And people choose many combinations to mail things to us, it’s pretty entertaining. I should start using that as the reason I didn’t change my name. For the mailing label entertainment value.

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    • honeybeenicki

      honeybeenicki August 1, 2014, 1:26 pm

      We had something sent to us with *Husband’sFirstName* *MyMaidenName*. It was entertaining. I did take my husbands name for a variety of reasons, one of which was I hated my maiden name (which was a popular soup brand and if I heard one more soup joke I mighta ended up in prison).

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    Elle Marie August 1, 2014, 2:20 pm

    That photo is of my friend’s cat!

    The kitty’s name is Osaka.

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  • Lyra

    Lyra August 1, 2014, 3:46 pm

    Ahhh, the name change debate again. I remember we got into this a few days ago on the feminist post too. I’m almost leaning towards the adding my name to my middle name and taking future husband’s last name. So Lyra *middlename* *mylastname* *husbandslastname* as my legal name. Hmmmm. I kinda like that. But that could change in 10 minutes. Haha.

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  • Lady_Red

    Red_Lady August 2, 2014, 8:06 pm

    Wow, the parents one is dumb. Total opposite of Wendy’s great post a few weeks ago. I have a friend that I’ve barely seen since she had kids, though, and I wonder if she thinks the way this author does. She didn’t come to one of my parties because she couldn’t find a baby sitter. Even though multiple other friends had no problem bringing their kids. And really, of the 5 good friends I have that are now mothers, there’s only just the one that’s disappeared. Sure, I don’t see the others as often, and now the kids usually tag along, but we still at least see each other.

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