This is the part where I’m confused: I didn’t see him for three months after we met. I finally saw him again a few weeks ago. I know you’re probably thinking I’m crazy, but I’m just trying to figure him out. He never makes time for me. I keep asking him when am I going to see him and he replies, “I’ll make time for you baby – I’ve been busy.” We text on a daily basis. He said “I love you” (I was shocked), but it’s all talk no action. It’s too much for me with all these mind games. Please help me! — Tired of Mind Games
It’s early in the morning and I’m leaving for the airport in five minutes to head back to New York after a weekend getaway in Chicago. I have to make this short, which is perfect because the answer is simple: MOA.
You are not dating this guy and he does not love you. Love is making time for someone. Love is being there. Love is knowing you mean something. Love is action.
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