Less than a week after our last hookup, Sam and I went to a party at Jordan and Josh’s place where Sam told me that we couldn’t keep hooking up because he was starting to talk to another girl, which I was totally fine with. Later in the evening, I was fairly intoxicated and everyone was going to bed so I tried to find a spot in the house to crash for the night. Jordan was in his room passed out with the door shut. Josh was in his bed, but still awake so I asked him if there was an open bed or couch I could crash on for the night. Josh told me I could just stay in his bed and we ended up hooking up.
The next morning Josh had to leave early for work and Jordan woke up the whole house when he had to go to the bathroom at 8:30 in the morning. Jordan saw me walking around downstairs looking for some water and trying to figure out why I was awake so early. We both went back upstairs to try to sleep more. Later in the morning, Jordan came into Josh’s room while I was still trying to get some sleep and saw me, fully clothed and by myself in Josh’s bed. I don’t know if Jordan knows about Josh and me hooking up, but I have a feeling that the fact that he found me in Josh’s bed might have given it away. I know that Jordan and Josh knew about me hooking up with Sam and I am afraid that I might have ruined any chance I had with Jordan since I have now hooked up with his friend and his twin brother.
What should I do and have I totally ruined any chance of ever having anything with Jordan? — Twin Peaks
Uh, yeah, you’ve probably ruined your chance with Jordan since you’ve now hooked up with his friend and his twin. There’s really nothing you can do about that except be a little more judicious in the future about who you hook up with. Tip: if you like someone, for the love of God, don’t hook up with his twin!!!
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