- April 17, 2017 at 8:30 am #682235
And of course you were supposed to block him on email too. Plus, above you said he texted you.April 17, 2017 at 8:38 am #682238
Like Kate said, it’s both. He and his mum are a package deal. He’d love to get back together with you but on his terms where he lives with his mum and she always comes first and you are available for sex and a little companionship if his mum allows it in the moment. If you got back together with him everything would be like it was before which didn’t make you happy then. It won’t make you happy now. Any time you try to get serious he’ll break up again. He’s probably lonely. It is hard to find a girlfriend who will put up with a man who is so attached to his mum and so controlled by her. The older he gets the harder he will find it to have a girlfriend. When a guy is 22 most guys his age still live with a parent so it doesn’t stand out but by his age most are independent and it stands out that he hasn’t managed to leave home. Dating him is like dating a teenager with a controlling mum. He’s stuck in his teen lifestyle. Don’t you want someone your own age who can act his age and who is able to make his own decisions?April 17, 2017 at 8:46 am #682240
MrsconfusedThis reply has been marked as private.April 17, 2017 at 8:52 am #682241
@mrsconfused, Can you start a new thread, please? In the advice forum? Just copy paste what you wrote here.
April 17, 2017 at 9:14 am #682248
- This reply was modified 1 month, 1 week ago by Kate.
Thanks skyblossom that was really helpful answer. That was the kind of answer i needed to hear…. your right he is like a teenager living at home still… i guess its so hard as i fell hard for him… he took me to lovely places very romantic great in bed . Great laughs together so i guess thats where its hard… but yes im 34 and i have my own place so your right i just need to find a guy more on my level and not one who actually likes to stay at home.April 17, 2017 at 9:23 am #682257
I did block him kate but didnt on email. I didnt expect him to email. I ment email but was typing to fast. Anyway i think you and skyblossom are right. Its both and its never going to change.April 17, 2017 at 9:59 am #682279
We are all capable of falling in love with someone who isn’t very compatible. Most of us have probably done it at least once. It hurts to break up because the emotions are real but it hurts worse to spend years or a lifetime with someone who is so incompatible. Block him and if he manages to send a message to you ignore it like you’ve never seen it and block whatever way it arrived.
If you move this to Forum Advice you’ll get lots more comments.April 17, 2017 at 10:00 am #682281
Ok thankyouApril 17, 2017 at 10:21 am #682285
Mrs confused i cabt read your reply as its privateApril 17, 2017 at 10:35 am #682290
Oh, ok, so I can see Mrsconfused’s post, and it’s not to you, it’s about a problem she has which is totally unrelated to yours, so I was suggesting she start a new thread. I didn’t realize it was private.April 17, 2017 at 10:42 am #682295
Ahh ok… thanks kate