Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

Don’t know what to do

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    dinoceros
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    I don’t think he’s interested in being in the relationship anymore, but he’s too lazy/awkward/whatever to end it. If he wanted to be with you, he’d spend time with you.

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    LisforLeslie

    Get busy. Get hobbies, make plans with friends. Do things that you enjoy. Let him know that you want to see him and if he makes time for you – great. If he doesn’t, you need to decide if it’s acceptable or not. If not acceptable, break up.

    A lot of people have this sweet sweet honeymoon period where they are with their boo all the time and their partner always puts them first. But sometimes people feel like since they’re committed, they don’t have to keep doing all of those nice things because “he/she knows how I feel” or “If he/she wanted me to be happy, he/she wouldn’t be mad that I’m spending all my time playing games, herding cows, managing a Fortune 500 company” so they stop with the wooing.

    Tell him you need to be wooed. He needs to make time for you and show you that he cares.

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