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Ex gf motive for contact after No Contact?

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    Vathena

    I’m imagining what we’d all say if SHE were the one writing in. We’d be telling her that her bf didn’t value her, and treated her like crap because he was too much of a coward to just break up. That just because you miss someone, it doesn’t mean breaking up wasn’t the right thing to do. That she’s young and there are better matches out there for her. That she should go back to no-contact and MOA.

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    Leslie Joan

    In your previous post, you explained that you told here you had no ill feelings. So now you are telling us that, surprise surprise, you DO have those feelings. So, you flat out lied to her. And to us. All in the interest of looking like new man.

    You also said that YOU went full No Contact. Soooo – you were angry at her for the manner of the breakup, because, what exactly? Because she wouldn’t listen to you beg and plead? Is your favorite song “Under My Thumb,” by any chance?

    Be honest. If you are, then she’ll get over the idea that she wants to get back with you, since it’s pretty obvious exactly what you’re going to do, and exactly what she’s going to do. Getting back together isn’t going to solve your relationship problems.

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