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December 6, 2017 at 11:44 am #728643
From a LW:
I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. We’re really close but I’m still the jealous type. In the past I’ve found a fake social media accounts where he’s talked to a girl explicitly & a picture he’s drawn of his ex. So sometimes I see why I’m jealous.
I feel very guilty because last night this girl he used to sell weed to called his phone while he was asleep. I had been drinking a bit so I answered and told her she had the wrong number. She didn’t believe me & called me useless. This really bothered me so I began texting her from my boyfriends phone. It became an argument. She face timed, had her friends call, & left violent voicemails.
I’ve blocked & deleted her number along with her friends numbers from his phone. I just can’t help but feel horrible about it. I’m also beyond worried he’ll find out or she’ll somehow get in contact with him. I just feel kinda stupid & not sure why I chose to do that in the first place.December 6, 2017 at 12:03 pm #728645
Don’t date drug dealers.December 6, 2017 at 2:11 pm #728661
Or at the very least, don’t date guys who make you feel insecure in your relationship.December 6, 2017 at 2:31 pm #728664
It’s almost like drug dealers don’t make ideal boyfriends. Who knew.December 6, 2017 at 2:33 pm #728665
I can’t help finding it funny, what you made. You should totally own it toward your boyfriend, but I am not sure you should keep him as a boyfriend.December 6, 2017 at 2:39 pm #728668
It is a little bad sitcom-ish. I don’t think this is going to have a happy ending. You’re not comfortable in your relationship and you acted waaaaaay immature pretending it was a wrong number, and the subsequent diggery-doo.
The best outcome is that you ‘fess up and he forgives you. The worst is that this is hanging over your head until you break up, making you a nervous wreck.
The more likely outcome is that you say nothing, she is able to contact him, tells him her side of the story and he flips out on you and breaks up with you.
oy. such dramaDecember 6, 2017 at 3:09 pm #728671
It could be worse than that. Drug dealing is an extremely violent and dangerous business. To come between a dealer and his customers and piss off the customers? A calm, peaceful end to the relationship is a positive outcome.