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    Honey

    It doesnt say anywhere that the aunt n uncle are old…they might be in their twenties for all u know. If its just for a few days try to b as gracious as u can…if it much longer mayb hav a conversation with ur mom. I dont think they meant any disrespect to u.

    #693143 Reply
    bittergaymark
    Bittergaymark

    Oh, for pete’s sake! Grow the fuck up. Seriously. Just grow the fuck already. So many people create needless pointless drama in their lives.
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    Disrespected.
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    Bullshit. Disrespected. That is without a doubt the most pretentious, most overused word ever developed by the western world.

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    hazel

    Well that is a fair point, they may well be young. I’m just worried that this girl feels her relations don’t think much of her feelings, and trying to point out that adults of all ages do have regular sex and they won’t have intended it as a slight to her, and she shouldn’t feel at all hurt.

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    Sarah

    “I wouldn’t want anybody having sex in my bed. It doesn’t really matter to me that the sheets can be washed.”

    Agree so much! I may wash the sheets, but they would never really feel clean again! If I gave up my room to a couple, I would probably get special guest sheets that I would not use myself. I don’t care if some people think it is irrational, I’m a bit of a germaphobe.

    I feel like defiling someone else’s bed IS a bit inconsiderate. She knows she took a kid’s room. If I had to guess, I feel like most kids wouldn’t be okay with their family members having sex on their beds (I wasn’t, as a kid). She should think about that and respect that. (If she was given a guest bedroom or her adult sibling’s bed, that may be a bit different.)

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    Sarah

    On another note, KNOCK!

    Just stayed at the in-laws’ house and his mother wouldn’t knock. She kept walking in. I was super annoyed. It didn’t annoy hubby until she walked in on him changing. Only then did he finally say something to her!

    #693153 Reply
    Skyblossom
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    @sarah Since when is having sex defiling? You seem to have some major hangups about sex if that’s the way you see it. You could have a small child sleep in your bed and pee in it. That’s far worse than sex. Sex is a normal body function and there is nothing inherently wrong with it and it isn’t defiling and it isn’t rude and it isn’t disrespectful as long as you aren’t forcing someone else to watch or listen.

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    Kate

    I’m not sure what germs you’re going to be exposed to on washed sheets that someone may have leaked a little fluid on.

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    Sarah

    No sex hangups here. I just have boundaries and beliefs that are different from yours.

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    Kate

    So you don’t believe that “Sex is a normal body function and there is nothing inherently wrong with it?”

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    Sarah

    Sex is natural, yes. But natural doesn’t mean clean. Childbirth is natural but it sure as heck is dirty! (And I don’t want a child peeing in my bed, either! It might eventually happen, but I don’t have to love it.)

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    Janelle

    Also to note. You aren’t lending your room your parents are. Their house.

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    Janelle

    How is it not clean? That’s weird. Agree with @kate prior comment

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