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January 4, 2018 at 8:35 pm #735014
My boyfriend and I have a “on again,off again” relationship of 9 years. We also have children. Our most recent break up was in 2015. Even though we were broken up and didn’t have that title we were basically still together. We did everything together. Well we recently got back together this past November. In the summer we were “working” on our relationship. We even moved in together in December. Well he told me that he had something to tell me and he didn’t know how to tell me. He told me that he has been seeing this other women for 2 years and that she is pregnant with his child. He told me that it was only sex and nothing more. He said that he tried to give her money for an abortion but she wanted to keep the baby because she had got rid of another baby last year. He was crying to me telling me that he was sorry and he didn’t mean for this to happen. He told me that he is and has always been in love with me, it was just a mistake. I am so heartbroken and idk what to do. He told me all of this after we moved in together. I never suspected another women because even though we were broken up he was still always with me and our kids. And now mind you during this time we had our third child in 2017. I feel like everything he says to me now is a lie. I feel like I wasted so much time in this relationship and its getting me nowhere. I don’t want to be with him knowing that he is having a baby by someone else. and if we do stay together idk if I can accept that baby. I just need advice on if I should stay or not.January 5, 2018 at 2:34 pm #735062
Your question — should I trust him? — is pretty irrelevant when you don’t trust him. And from what you’ve written, you don’t.January 5, 2018 at 2:43 pm #735063
No, you shouldn’t stay with a man who was sleeping with other women without protection behind your back.
He isn’t worthy of trust. You know that. You know you are going nowhere with him. You said it yourself.January 5, 2018 at 6:09 pm #735079
Being in a relationship for 2 years isn’t a mistake. Wait and she had gotten rid of another baby a year ago which most probably was your boyfriends child too!! He was fucking both of you at the same time. Why would you want to be with someone like that for. Eyy go check for STDs