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October 7, 2017 at 12:15 pm #722544
Just throwing it out. I appreciate that most of the posters here are thoughtful, respectful and open to different views as well as often being funny as heck. And I give Wendy and Kate huge props for moderating so diligently, as well as being sensitive to those who are truly fragile as opposed to those who are trollish.
Bottom line is that we can’t please everyone. And if someone doesn’t want to understand it, then fuck ’em. Plus nobody is a mindreader able to tell about a tech problem that’s never been reported, so going off on a rant is unhinged as well as counterproductive. Interesting that anyone who’s been reading an advice column for years doesn’t get the basics of communication down, but I guess that’s only supposed to apply to other people. Hah.October 7, 2017 at 12:22 pm #722545
This was too easy. Look, I’m actually on your side as feminists number one, number two, no sorry Wendy I’m not sad , am not angry r, definitely not lonely and i have a family of 4 here at home, my wife loves your site, well, maybe she still does but the laughter out of all the comments kinda did through her, lmao and to the ones who said i am a narcissist, way to armchair it, and the one that said unwanted will be gone forever, good luck, it’s quite the opposite, it’s a free site and i can change I.P address whenever i chose, you all keep trying to block me but it won’t happen sorry. Btw there were quite a few times that i put my two cents in, and guess what, gasp, my comment was agreed with by some of you, I’m not a bully and as Wendy claimed did not harass or bully anyone. Again, I’m not going anywhere i will still lurk and read i just wont comment and leave you all be. You’re welcomeOctober 7, 2017 at 12:32 pm #722546
Hahahahahaha. All you ever did was act like a bitch, or why would you call yourself “unwanted truth.” If anyone agreed with you, it was another bitch. Not that I remember that happening OR anything specific you ever said except that it was nasty.October 7, 2017 at 12:33 pm #722547
And thanks for finally shutting the hell up, let’s hope you can.October 7, 2017 at 12:39 pm #722550
But look at you STILL begging for attention and lapping it up.October 7, 2017 at 12:40 pm #722551
Go back and see for yourself admin. Plenty of times i chimed in and didn’t bully or shit on anyone and was agreed with. Again I’m not going anywhere. Wendy and the site helped me in my personal life, and not for nothin but you Kate, northernstar or lights….whatever, saeinca, and other few people who’s name i cant remember off the top are the bullies. Shit ass attitudes at all times. Have a good one.October 7, 2017 at 12:45 pm #722555
Stop with the “ unwanted just wants needs attention “
It’s not even that, i coulda emailed Wendy in private, i should have done that actually, i could have worded what i said better with more compassion, i failed at that and fucked up, i can and do admit it. But being told fuck you this and that when actually yes i did and will do again donate money to this site. Regardless how i am hated here now i know this place has helped people and will continue to do so and I respect that. On my end… with the hate and yadda yadda, pure entertainment at this timeOctober 7, 2017 at 12:47 pm #722556
Oh you LOVE this. Women talking to you. A while thread about you You You. Highlight of your life.October 7, 2017 at 1:09 pm #722566
“This was too easy”? Wut?
There was only one person using the term NPD, and that was me. I described your behavior. It’s entirely characteristic of narcissists. Whether you are diagnosed as one or not, I don’t give a material shit. I’m not a licensed mental health professional, so I don’t need to adhere to any standards of the profession. I call what you’re doing, and I’m also aware that narcissists are seldom diagnosed, because the problem is always someone else.
And how productive are you being now, that instead of realizing how truly unhinged and unproductive your post was, you’re doubling down? If you don’t want someone to characterize your behavior as entirely consistent with that of NPD, then don’t act like it.
I can offer this unprofessional advice: when you’re in a hole, stop digging.
The truth is not determined by how many people agree with you. The actual truth may be nuanced and differ from person to person based on their perspective. Rashoman, anybody? If what you actually seek to do is gain applause and agreement, you have to know that going off on people isn’t going to achieve that. If you just intend to lash out and vent spleen, every sane adult knows what effect that’ll likely get, so quit playing games. Lastly , don’t confuse rudeness with truth.October 7, 2017 at 1:18 pm #722572
Oh, you are hilarious. Now you think you are “hated.” Oh, the drama! Oh, the injustice! Oh, the knashing of the teeth and the rending of your garments!
You really need a professional. You are seeing things that aren’t there, and it’s all about you, you, the center of the universe, so maligned and misunderstood! Sure you’re not NPD. Not a little bit.October 8, 2017 at 6:45 am #722617
I don’t think anyone here hates you, Unwanted. No one cares enough for all that. As you probably figured out, I did block the IPs that you normally use. You’re a genius for figuring out a way to circumvent that. But, whatever — as long as you quit commenting, I couldn’t care less if you continue to give me pageviews. Please do not donate to this site though. I don’t need or want your money. If you feel the need to make a difference with a financial contribution somewhere, I recommend these deserving organizations, very much in need of support:
Hispanic Federation (for hurricane relief in Puerto Rico)
Planned ParenthoodOctober 8, 2017 at 9:42 am #722626
Thanks for the links, Wendy. I just donated again to Puerto Rico in case those paper towels aren’t enough and Unwanted doesn’t get around to it.
Also, I thought Jason Aldean singing Tom Petty last night on SNL without getting political was pretty great, and I wasn’t crying, you were ????