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    Lauretta Liley

    Hi Flowerfly, thank you for your comments. It is a horrible position to be in and I really wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
    Thank you for your kind words. The 19 year old wants me to leave but why should I let her win? Why should I loose the job I love doing to make her happy?
    I am going to give it a good shot and do the best I can. If they are continually going to bully me after a months time then I will re think my options and go from there.
    The 61 year old already told me that our relationship will never be the same again after I tried to reason for her for the first time.
    The best I can do now is apologize to her first thing Monday morning and take it from there. Work hard and ignore their catty behavior on a daily basis

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    Lauretta Liley

    I hope everything works out for you too! You are right, life is too short to be around negative and mean people.
    I just need to keep reminding myself that I haven’t done anything wrong. It is just my brain that won’t shut up at night which is the hardest.
    I literally have hit rock bottom

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    Kate

    Oh, this is not rock bottom, not by a long shot. Just pull yourself together.

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    LisforLeslie

    Yeah – I think you may mean you have hit your limit. Meaning, you’re done with the place and people. And I wouldn’t blame you if you were.

    Hitting rock bottom means you have lost everything and everyone in your life.

    Buck up and buckle up because this shit is going to happen again. It’s all about how you choose to deal with candy-stealing, rumor-generating assholes.

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    Kate

    Plenty of people wreck their careers and their marriages by behaving really stupidly. You’re not at that point. But you do need to rise above this and get really professional.

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    Lauretta Liley

    Great advice leslie and Kate, thank you!

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