It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Lost Sleep” who was losing sleep over her live-in boyfriend spending the majority of his nights in singles chat rooms online. He “stays on the sites until 3 AM when he has to be to work at 8,” she wrote. “He rushes me through sex so I’ll fall asleep afterward, and he can then log onto his chat sites.” Keep reading to see whether she’s still with this gem.
I’m leaving him. It’s over.
Well, good luck.
If you’re someone I’ve given advice to in the past, I’d love to hear from you, too. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now.
If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at email@example.com.