It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Picture Perfect” who wanted to know what guys thinks of boudoir photos. She updated us once before to say she’d decided to have the photos taken. Now, she updates us again to tell us how it went.
I’m so glad I got up the courage to do this, especially since I’ve been battling with insecurities about my weight for years. When I was on that set, I felt beautiful and desirable in every way. I felt like I could be Marilyn Monroe. I didn’t care that I need to lose 15 pounds or that I have love handles. The photographer was very artistic, and guided me into poses that were tasteful and flattering for my shape. And now I have this photographic proof that I’m beautiful just the way I am. I highly recommend every woman go for this adventure, no matter her age or size!
That’s wonderful! Thanks for sharing.
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