Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

Kate

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  • in reply to: My ex won't go away #729464
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    Kate
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    Please tell me you realize he kept dumping you at the beginning because he was trying to get with other girls. And that he had “trust issues” because HE was cheating on YOU.

    Definitely re-block him everywhere and keep living your life. He’s just in a dry spell right now, sending those pix to everyone he can think of.

    in reply to: My ex won't go away #729463
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    Kate
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    So he’s jumping through hoops of fire, huh? Making an anonymous FB account! Letting you block your caller ID! Wow, he must be a changed man and ready to give true love a try. Nope, he’s still a player and he WILL dump you again as soon as he gets you reeled in.

    in reply to: In desperate guidance / advice. Please read #729399
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    Kate
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    It’s the United States.

    in reply to: In desperate guidance / advice. Please read #729396
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    Kate
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    How were you diagnosed with PTSD, depression, and anxiety then? This whole thing just… I don’t follow.

    Anyway. No, don’t ask permission to go visit your boyfriend from the guy who sexually abused you and is still your guardian at 20 and you know he’ll say no.

    Your priority really should be getting therapy, getting out on your own, distancing yourself from your “family,” and being well, but hey. Do what you want.

    in reply to: In desperate guidance / advice. Please read #729379
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    Kate
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    Why are you not seeing a therapist?

    in reply to: Rebound #729373
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    Kate
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    You kind of are a shit. At least you’re being one right now. Tell him immediately that living together isn’t working for you, so he can take his house off the market if he needs to. If you’d like to just be companions, tell him that. Tell him you’ve realized you’re not looking for something serious with him, but you enjoy his company. IF that’s true. If not, tell him you got caught up in this after being widowed, and you’re so sorry but you’ve realized it’s not right for you and you need to break it off. Be honest and respectful of this guy.

    in reply to: We are not kids anymore #729221
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    Kate
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    You are imagining that she thinks she must know anything and everything about your life. That’s your interpretation of it. It seems much more likely that she’s just wondering why you haven’t told her about the thing that’s bringing you down, since everyone else seems to know.

    in reply to: We are not kids anymore #729217
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    Kate
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    Well, how is she supposed to know that you’re not COMFORTABLE sharing, if multiple other people seem to know your situation? Of course she’s going to assume you just don’t want to (it’s confide, btw) in her, and think that maybe you’re not really good friends. And maybe you’re not. Either let the friendship go, or tell her you’ve been going through some stuff but that it’s getting better, and make plans with her to hang out and have fun. No reason for drama.

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    Kate
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    Fourteen year olds. 14!!! He was banned from the mall for creeping on girls. That’s a fact. This wasn’t just about him dating teens. He’s accused of assaulting them too. The reason people are letting it go is because it’s middle-aged women accusing him, and no one gives a shit what women say.

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    Kate
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    White southerners need to grasp what it means to move on.

    in reply to: This whole Trump situation just gets worse and worse everyday #729165
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    Kate
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    Don’t get me wrong, I’m really happy about it.

    The thing is, think about how much people hate pedophiles. So much that they want them dead. A lot of people think there should be the death penalty for child molesters. They get murdered in jail. And he STILL got almost half the votes. And a majority among white voters. I get it, it’s Alabama, it’s as red as you can get. I get it. But he got over 48%. Republicans could have stayed home. They ALL could have written in someone else. But they VOTED FOR A PEDOPHILE. All this bullshit about not knowing the facts, and due process… no. There isn’t due process for something like this that happened in the 1970s. You have to make up your OWN goddamn mind about what happened. Enjoy hell, Moore voters. Your own minds must be hell.

    in reply to: This Makes Me So Mad! #729129
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    Kate
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    My mom, at 68, has adapted with the times and gets her own coffee. Men can too. The ones that do will be better off. The rest are welcome to stay in 1997 with Matt Lauer. Every day it’s a choice.

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