This morning’s column got me wondering about when people say “I love you” in relationships, and especially when they say it versus when they feel it. If I remember right, Drew and I said “I love you” after about eight months together, which seems like a long time to me, but we were long-distance and so our relationship was moving a little more slowly than if we were seeing each other several times a week like most couples probably do. What about you? If you’re in a relationship now where you’ve said “I love you,” how long did you wait after you started feeling it? What about in past relationships? And would you agree with my argument in this morning’s column that, if you aren’t feeling it at ten months in (regardless of whether you’re saying it), then you probably won’t ever feel it?