In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
But he’s honestly perfect. He constantly communicated with me while we were on a break. He was simply asking me to give him one last chance and if it doesn’t work, he says, he was going to leave me. I took the offer and we’re back together. I didn’t want him to suffer anymore because of my mistake. I am such a horrible person and I didn’t realize that he was such a good person. Now, I am contemplating whether I should tell him or not. If I tell him, he’ll be hurt and we’re done for forever. If I don’t tell him, the guilt will kill me. I promised myself I wouldn’t cheat on him anymore because he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. What should I do? — Done Cheating
If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at firstname.lastname@example.org.