In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
We have had some good times together — we went to Disney World twice this year and had a great time. I’ve met his parents and his friends, which my previous boyfriend did not let me do (I felt like he was ashamed of me). The guy I am with now is good to me for the most part, but there are things he says to me when we fight that really hurt my feelings. I love him, but I don’t think I’m in love with him. This is the longest relationship either of us has had, but I don’t know how much longer I can take this fighting. Can anyone help me? — Love But Not IN Love
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