In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
Now, Chris has found a new girl he is engaged to. Both my boyfriend and I are sure that he is also cheating on this girl. But my boyfriend is still friends with Chris. I never asked my boyfriend to stay away from Chris or stop talking to him, but I am worried about his reactions to Chris’s wrong behaviour. I also expect him to show some compassion to the girls who are being cheated on especially when he has people in his family who are affected by cheating.
Sometimes it bothers me that he wants to invite Chris to our home and I have to cook for them. I feel that Chris gets away with everything but my boyfriend thinks that I am being judgemental. All of this gives me the feeling that my boyfriend also has the potential to cheat. I think he is loyal to me currently, but I also feel that a couple of years down he is likely to cheat. What should I do? – Not a Chris Fan
If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at firstname.lastname@example.org.