In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
The day after we broke up, he started dating this other girl, let’s call her “Rachael,” and it broke my heart. I knew that Rachael had a crush on him when I was dating him and, when I asked my ex why he was with me and not her, he literally sat in my car and listed off the reasons why he doesn’t like her.
Do you think I should sit down and talk to him? I loved him, and I would like nothing more than to be back with him, but, if he’s happy with her, I would just like to know so I can know he’s happy and move on. — First Broken Heart
If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at firstname.lastname@example.org.