In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
When Harry came out, a rumor got started that he and Victor had once watched gay porn together and then attempted to have anal sex, but gave up due to the discomfort. When we started dating, I asked Victor about it and he denied the rumor. I asked where it came from and he said it was just something one of his other friends started to be an ass. The problem is that every time he’s in town, Harry belittles my relationship with Victor and says that Victor is gay anyway.
Recently, Harry was rude to the point where I refuse to spend any time around him, which has caused an issue with him and Victor. Victor hasn’t completely cut him out of his life but is respecting my need to not have Harry around, for now. Harry will be back in town soon and I want to ban him from our house. Do you think banning him will negatively impact my relationship? Also, I feel like my boyfriend is lying to me about experimenting with boys. I don’t care if he has, but I hate being lied to. What should I do? — Lost in Rumorville