In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
Eventually, he met his now-girlfriend and I quickly became his “other woman.” That was two years ago. I have been with him throughout his breaking off his friendship with my son’s father, his having his own son with his girlfriend, and throughout many blow-up fights and breaking it off and making up. The past two weeks have been hell. He finally, after two years, admitted he loved me but refused to say the two words. He got very drunk and cheated on me and his girlfriend with a co-worke–and then told me he was going to break-up with his girlfriend, but turned around and and broke up with me instead. When I told him how much he was hurting me, he got mad and told me I was pathetic and said he didn’t say he loved me.
In the end, I can’t take anymore heartbreak and I want to move on and never go back, but I cannot stop wondering if he actually cares or not. Plus, I don’t know how to move on. Oh, and one more thing… He has been with me in a LDR for two years with NO sex. — The Other Woman, Dumped