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I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months but have known him for many years since we attended the same school. He and his sister-in-law are too close for comfort for my liking. They share many secrets which her husband does not know about and they seem to confide in each other a lot and he can’t say a bad word about her. In fact, he can’t shut up about how amazing she is at everything. I have, for some time, had a strong gut feeling that there is more to this than meets the eye. I believe she’s jealous of me, even though we always used to get along. She’s nosy and seems to want to know all the details about my relationship with my boyfriend.
Now, my boyfriend is lovely, but tight where money is concerned and I feel he has a very roving eye which is now making me green-eyed! I know 100% for sure that he has lied to me over certain things to do with his Facebook account, and I believe he messages women behind my back although I do feel it is innocent (but why all the secrecy?). On the whole, he has a lot of great qualities, but this is really giving me second thoughts. Do I follow my gut instinct or am I just an insecure, paranoid woman? — Second Thoughts
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