I feel like her husband pays an inappropriate amount of attention to me every time I’m around to the point that he will invite me to places with them when my friend hasn’t even mentioned it to me. I have both of them on my Facebook as well, and it seems he is always commenting on my stuff while she is MIA in my life whether it’s through FB, hanging out, or just texting to say what’s up. I’m starting to get really uncomfortable with the dynamics of this friendship because I really just wanted to be friends with her, not her husband! I have experienced the wrath of unjustified jealousy of a married woman before and I feel like it’s starting to happen again. I want to just end the friendship with her and move on and find like-minded, single females, but I feel like maybe I’m overreacting to these subtle hints. Help!! — Grapes of Wrath
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