Love have no fury like a lady scorned who happens to have some dirt that could possibly get you in legal trouble, huh? But when that lady starts spreading that dirt, she’s not just getting her ex in possible trouble, she’s putting herself in a vulnerable position as well. By going to the authorities with the information you have, not only will you likely have to answer an endless stream of questions, including why you’re only now coming forward, there may be legal repercussions you’re unaware of as well (I’m not a lawyer, so I can’t speak to what those specific repercussions might be, but I’m willing to bet there could be some). In addition, you will be opening yourself up to potential retaliation by a very angry ex who has proven himself to have a less than stellar character. Who knows what he’s capable of and what kind of danger you’d be putting yourself in.
I’m not telling you not to come forward with the information you have, but I’m cautioning you to think very carefully about your motives. You aren’t interested in helping law officials solve a crime, or in justice being served for the victim. You just want to get back at your ex for being mean to you. And I’m telling you that that plan could very well backfire in a big, big way. If you really were concerned about doing the right thing for the sake of doing the right thing, you might be more emotionally prepared for whatever consequences you might face. But to go this route for the sake of revenge is something else altogether, and considering the fragile emotional state you seem to be in, I’d think very carefully before doing something with such serious repercussions that cannot be un-done.
A much better way to exact revenge on your ex is to MOA and not look back. Focus on how nice it is to no longer be with someone who treats you like shit. Spend time doing things that fill you with joy, rather than obsessing over the things that bring you down and prolong the negativity you’ve been living in for so long. Move on, and work on repairing your self-esteem. Your ex will get what’s coming to him sooner or later. That’s the way karma works.
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