I need updates! If you’re someone whose letter I answered in a past column and you never emailed me an update on your situation, letting me — and the readers — know whether you followed the advice and how things turned out, I’d like to invite you to do so now. If you have updated before and things have changed or progressed in your life enough to warrant a new update, I’d love to hear from you again. Even if you hated my advice and want to tell me to suck it, that’s cool, too. Thank you!