“I’m A Grown Woman, But My Parents Still Give Me a Curfew!”
“I am (almost) in my mid-twenties, in grad school and support myself with a combination of loans, scholarships and part-time work.”
“I am (almost) in my mid-twenties, in grad school and support myself with a combination of loans, scholarships and part-time work.”
Jane, my sister-in-law, whom I have a very good relationship with, got married several years ago, just before I started dating her brother, Jake.
“I’ve been with the boyfriend for almost three years. We were engaged for a year, but called it off last summer because he couldn’t pick a date.”
“My boyfriend of three and a half years is spending way too much time with “Jim,” a neighbor friend in our new building. Jim’s not a bad guy, but…”
“I’ve been on and off with Rick for about eleven months. He travels a lot, and over the summer, I moved an hour away from where he lives.”
It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in three sentences or less, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. Today we discuss the etiquette of returning an engagement ring, dating someone you’re not attracted to, and when to end an LDR.
“My boyfriend of seven months, whom I’m engaged to, has recently reunited with his four year-old daughter from a previous relationship …”
“I dated Mike for a brief period over a year ago. We’ve remained friends, and he is now dating a woman who, from what he tells me, is very controlling.”
My husband and I have been together since we were 15, and married since 20. Now, as 23 year-olds, we are finding ourselves under immense pressure from our parents, friends and co-workers (?!) to have children. Everyone seems to think that once you are married the next step is children. While we definitely want to have them, we still feel that we are very young and have many things we wish to experience together before we make such a life-changing decision. When I explain that to nosy people, including my mother-in-law, I am treated as though I am an selfish child who ought not to have married if she wasn’t ready for babies….
End of content
End of content