I have a very close friend who is older than I am and who has been married for just over a year. I spend a lot of time with her—-and subsequently with her husband. He has always been jokey/flirty with me, and I have seen this same behavior between him and other people (being jokey/suggestive…
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Three letters in today’s column. Let’s get to it: I married less than a year ago to a man who was a notorious bachelor. He had multiple partners over the years after a few bad marriages. His wives all divorced him after they cheated on him. Well, after being alone for about 13 years, I…
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I am a 40-year-old woman from South America. I have an adult child, and I will be getting married this May. I was in hetero relationships my whole life and they were all healthy. A few years ago, I fell in love with a colleague from work (we now work for different companies) – same…
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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Granny’s Got to Go” (LW2) who wrote in three years ago when she was discussing moving in with her boyfriend whose…
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On this day twelve years ago, I launched DW – an anniversary I don’t always remember but this year I did. I like the number twelve, especially in relation to time. I think of the twelve months of the year and the twelve signs of the zodiac. Twelve seems significant, solid – like maybe you’re…
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