My boyfriend of nine months and I broke up a few weeks ago, and I’m pretty devastated. I was in love with him (and still am), but he said he didn’t see a future with me. It’s sad and heartbreaking, but I do know that it was the right thing to do if there was…
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A little over a year ago, I started dating my best friend of 14 years. He is friends with his ex, “Jackie,” from before we even met, which I was fine with…until recently. We had asked her to babysit my child, and, while she was texting me about the details, she texted him saying she…
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It’s time again for Three-in-One, where I answer three letters in one column. This is like Shortcuts, but with fewer empty calories. There are seven sets of couples in our circle of friends who have been very close for the past 9-10 years. About four years ago, one of the couples began to experience marriage…
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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Ex Effect” who wondered if she really was as stupid as her friends, family and Google said she was for…
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