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I am one of the very, very, very few early-mid twenty-something people I know who has a full-time job in her field of choice with benefits and a large enough income to pay for living expenses and student loans, with extra money for savings and spending. My friends mainly work in jobs that are not…
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It’s time again for Three-in-One, where I answer three letters in one column. This is like Shortcuts, but with fewer empty calories. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years. We’ve broken up three times in that span, but after each breakup we got together again after thoroughly discussing why we split and…
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There’s an interesting discussion in the forums about money and relationships. Specifically, it’s about how to split expenses — especially expenses that arise from things like weddings — in a committed, live-in relationship. The LW writes: My boyfriend and I have lived together for a little less than two years. He’s (a mature) 25 and…
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My boyfriend’s roommate’s girlfriend basically lives at their house. She has all of her stuff there, grocery shops, does laundry and for a while was parking in their garage. She had brought home some recently purchased dresses and one of them happened to not fit her. I offered to try it on and immediately really…
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