Last night I met up with a good friend of mine for happy hour drinks in our neighborhood where we talked and talked for nearly three hours… We’re both parents of kids who aren’t yet eligible for Covid vaccination – but soon they will be! – and are among the more cautious in a peer… Read more
This was the very first photo I ever publicly shared – back on my old personal blog, “City Wendy in the Windy City – of Drew. It’s a pic of our feet, of course, on a subway in New York, and you can decipher no real details about him, which was kind of the point… Read more
Robert is back in the forums again – If you don’t know the saga of Robert, the Cliff Notes version is: he’s a single man in his mid-40s who has not had the dating success he wishes for. Two years ago he posted in the forums asking for advice on how to communicate with women… Read more
Years ago I had a friend whose rich parents still partially supported her (we were in our mid- and late-20s at the time). That in itself would never have ended the friendship, but as I discovered how materialistic and braggy and patronizing about money this woman turned out to be, I quickly became turned off… Read more
I keep writing and re-writing this Topic of the Day post, unable to settle on a specific topic because my brain keeps coming back to the main theme of the past 17 months, which is: this shit is really fucking hard! I feel burned out and drained. Not just in keeping up this site, but… Read more
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