Updates: “Baffled Bridesmaid” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Baffled Bridesmaid” whose best friend discovered she was pregnant shortly after getting engaged (and paying a deposit for her wedding venue) and was going full steam ahead on holding the wedding just a few short weeks after giving birth. “She even thinks her dress (which was ordered two sizes too small to begin with since she was planning on losing weight) will fit her fine, and that everything will go as previously planned.” said Baffled…

Updates: “Scared to Come Clean” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Scared to Come Clean” who was anxious about sharing her HPV diagnosis with her boyfriend. Her letter was posted as a “Your Turn” column, and after the jump, hear what she has to say about your advice and how she’s doing today.  

Updates: “Dying to Meet His Mom” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Dying to Meet His Mom” who was frustrated that her boyfriend of eight months still hadn’t introduced her to his mother, despite her mentioning several times that she’d like to meet her. After the jump, find out if introductions have finally been made.

Dear Wendy Updates: “Unsure Girlfriend” AKA “#18” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Unsure Girlfriend,” also known as #18 from this post, a woman whose boyfriend had been MIA for two weeks and who was unable to track him down since he had no phone, she didn’t know his friends well enough to call them, and he had guard dogs at his house that made it scary for her to drop by. Telling her to MOA was a no-brainer, but after the jump find out whether she followed…

Updates: “Crossed Boundaries” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Crossed Boundaries” who was frustrated that her live-in boyfriend’s neighbor friend was always over at their place and they never had time alone anymore. After the jump, find out why her neighbor was over all the time and whether he’s still crossing those boundaries.

Updates: “Bride Number Two” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Bride Number Two,” who was upset that her fiancé kept pictures of his first wedding in their home. You may remember, she even admitted to ripping up a few of them when a couple girlfriends came over and they all got a tipsy together. After the jump, find out if she confessed her actions to her fiancé and whether they’ve reached any resolution on the matter.

Updates: “Waiting To Hear The Words” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Waiting To Hear The Words” who was tired of waiting for her boyfriend of seven months to say “I love you” and wondered if she should say it to him first. “My fear is this: if he doesn’t say it back, I might revert to the insecure, unstable girl that I [once] was. I don’t want the constant anxiety and tears, always thinking that I’m not good enough to be loved. What should I do?”…

Updates: “Lost the Love Lottery” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Lost the Love Lottery” whose boyfriend of nine months decided he needed to take a break to “get all his ducks in a row” right after his mother won $2.6 million in the lottery. “I can’t decide if he’s legitimately feeling overwhelmed and needs a few days of space, or if he was having doubts about our relationship and this has provided a convenient excuse,” she wrote. After the jump, find out what the status…

Updates: Blind-Sided Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from Blind-Sided, whose boyfriend sent her a slew of nasty drunken texts, threatening to cheat, after he learned that she shared a bed with two platonic friends during a recent snowstorm. “Since then, he has been texting apologies periodically, has said that I did nothing to deserve that treatment and that the threat to cheat was an empty threat. Is this a red flag, or a fluke, and how should I move forward from this?” After…

Update: “Feeling Dragged Down” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing today. After the jump, we hear from “Feeling Dragged Down,” a young woman who was afraid to dump her boyfriend because he was bipolar and super depressed after a job loss and a series of bad luck incidents. “I would feel so guilty breaking up with him right now, but I’m also feeling really bogged down staying in this relationship that isn’t working.” After the jump, find out if she’s still with him and how she’s doing today.

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