Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? One man is a good friend and, to my delight, our friendship has blossomed into a wonderful romantic relationship. I cherish every moment we spend together. He is thoughtful, funny and has a kind heart. The other man is my eye doctor. I don’t want to hurt either of them and I’m afraid I’ll only end up hurting both. Should I just MOA and start over with someone new? — Double trouble
Dear Double Trouble,
Most nights I sleep at the end of the bed. It gives me a clear view of the whole apartment. Sometimes I get up, sit by Wendy’s pillow and stare directly at the wall. I do this for reasons of my own.
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