In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
He continued to say it was just lies, but I didn’t believe him. He kept calling me, like, 40 times in a day and I’d ignore all his calls until finally, a few days went by and I decided to answer and meet with him to talk. He basically told me he was married and has six kids but is no longer living with his wife. She just had a baby in December so obviously he was with her a year ago.
Before all this happened, he’d call me all the time and and if I didn’t answer he’d get so mad. He’s controlling and would get upset if I tried to hang out with my friends and would assume I was doing something behind his back. It was suspicious to me that he would act that way but till now I understand why. He told me he lied to keep me with him because he loves me so much. I just need advice on what to do if he begs me to give him a second chance. — No Thanks to Wife and Kids