Introducing “His Take”

A few weeks ago, I placed a call for male contributors, and was overwhelmed by the response. Longtime readers, old friends of mine, as well boyfriends, husbands, brothers, exes, friends, and co-workers of regular readers expressed an interest in contributing and lending a much-needed male perspective to the site. I’m happy to report, I’ve selected 13 smart, interesting, witty and diverse men — and I’m not just saying that because I’m married to one of them — to contribute to a new column called “His Take.”

“His Take” will answer situational questions from readers as well as more general questions about the male psyche and male behavior. In each column, which will run Mondays and Thursdays, 3-5 guys will share their thoughts on the question at hand. If you’d like to ask the guys a question, simply email me at wendy@dearwendy.com with “His Take” in the subject line and I’ll pass your question along to them. The first “His Take” column will go up on Monday. In the meantime, please check out the contributors bios and pics here (you may just recognize a name or two…).


  1. Welcome aboard guys. I look forward to reading your comments. I have always like listening to the male point of view.

  2. can’t wait to read the column. all the guys sound like they will have such witty and insightful comments. lucky us!

  3. delilahgem says:

    Ooohhh this should be good 🙂

  4. Yaay…! I’m sure this will be a great addition to Dear Wendy!

  5. Hey, I like the representation of North Dakota and Minnesota! I’m excited to read all the guys’ perspectives.

    1. bitter gay mark says:

      Yeah, that is sure of lot of Minnesota peeps! Very cool. 🙂

  6. I’m glad to see there’s at least a little southern representation here (though not much)

  7. Awesome. It will be nice to have the extra perspectives and different ways of looking at things. I look forward to reading what you guys have to say!

  8. Firegirl32 says:

    I am so excited about this part! Way to go Wendy on finding an ecclectic mix!

  9. Loved the bios!

    But, Dennis, aren’t you blinking in every picture?

    1. Not on pictures taken with those cameras that make you “unblink” (you know, like the ones that make you smile)….

      😎 <== See? Open eyes.

      1. TheOtherMe says:

        …”and you definitely won’t find a photo on the internet of him wearing a smug smile, a wave of radiantly conditioned hair, airbrush-perfect complexion,…”

        Except for his HOT RR pic on TF 🙂

  10. These bios are too funny. I’m glad to see some familiar folks here… looking forward to this column, fellas!

  11. Anne (I Go To 11) says:

    This should be fun! Looking forward to the new feature. 🙂

  12. callmehobo says:


    I am so so so pumped for this new feature!

  13. So excited I needed to finally sign up to comment!

  14. Can’t wait until Monday!

  15. This is super exciting! Thanks Wendy for bringing on some awesome dudes, and thanks to the dudes for being awesome 😀

  16. plasticepoxy says:

    I’m so excited to see this! I think this is a great idea.

  17. love the minnesota love!!

    thanks guys for participating!!! can’t wait to read whats next.

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