Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

New TV Show Looking For Women Who Suspect Their Partners of Cheating Online


Every day I get letters from women who suspect their husbands or boyfriends of cheating on them online through social media. If you are one of these women, you could be part of a new show that focuses on helping couples resolve the issues they are currently facing. This is not a talk show, but it is instead a one-hour special on a major cable network hosted by a licensed clinical psychologist who has a passion for helping others live their happiest and healthiest lives. If you would like to be considered for this show, please email the producers at OnlineLoveHelp@rtvshows.com, and please note that there is no travel required for this show. The therapist will be traveling to each couple. Here’s to working on your relationships!

This post is sponsored by Relativity Television.

18 comments… add one
  • Rachel April 9, 2014, 2:26 pm

    Interesting concept.. so it’d be just someone investigating my boyfriend (who I’m 99% sure is texting his ex)… cool!

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  • iwannatalktosampson April 9, 2014, 3:14 pm

    I mean if you have to apply to be on this show maybe you should just move the fuck on already. Or try to get your 15 minutes of reality tv show fame.

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    • bethany April 9, 2014, 3:26 pm

      But then what would I watch while I drink wine and eat cheese??

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      • LlamaPajamas April 9, 2014, 3:40 pm

        Llama Guy and I are obsessed with “Bridezillas” and “Bridezillas: Marriage Boot Camp”. Although I had a moment of reckoning when one of the brides insisted on having her pet squirrel and tiny dog in the ceremony – she even had a teeny tiny camo tux made for the squirrel. I worried that that’s where I was headed with my wedding llama, but I’m not making him a tux so I think I’m good.

      • iseeshiny April 9, 2014, 4:37 pm

        Why on earth would you let an improperly attired llama attend your wedding? That’s barbaric.

      • LlamaPajamas April 9, 2014, 10:41 pm

        Dear Wendy, if anyone writes in to you between now and October 4th asking if they should go along with a bride’s crazy llama-related requests (up to and including a custom make llama tux), please be generous and side with the bride/llama. Because you’re going to get some mail…


      • shanshantastic April 11, 2014, 10:53 am

        Agreed. How awkward will your poor llama feel if he is underdressed to celebrate your wedding? At least give him a sparkly bow tie, yeesh.

    • muchachaenlaventana April 9, 2014, 3:33 pm

      this is what I was going to say… i mean seriously. if you are filling out an application to be on this show and not getting the message that you should be done with the relationship, yeah… just no words.

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    • lets_be_honest April 9, 2014, 3:35 pm

      Negative Nancy.

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  • Diablo April 9, 2014, 3:16 pm

    Don’t we already have Maury? Personally, I doubt this Dr. Ramani can tell us who the baby daddy is.

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    • othy April 9, 2014, 3:58 pm

      Diablo, you are NOT the father.

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  • Lily in NYC April 9, 2014, 4:23 pm

    How does one quantify that they are the “leading expert on relationship issues caused by online activity”? I don’t know why that struck me as so funny.

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    • iseeshiny April 9, 2014, 4:36 pm

      No one else has claimed the title yet, so she got to call dibs?

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      • rainbow April 9, 2014, 4:40 pm

        Let’s talk someone into claiming it so they can fight for it in a cage

      • Diablo April 9, 2014, 4:54 pm

        What “somebody”? Wendy! I know she would win because we gingers are just plumb mad-dog mean, in the words of Josey Wales.

  • Ashley April 9, 2014, 6:15 pm

    Sounds interesting…I just caught my bf of 3 years cheating on me with someone he met online. It helps to know I’m not the only one. I’ll definitely be tuning into this show!

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  • bittergaymark April 9, 2014, 7:21 pm

    Um, okay. If anybody actually thinks that this will save their relationship — please contact me as I have a bridge in San Francisco presently up for sale… Cheap.

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  • Elizabeth April 10, 2014, 1:58 pm

    Honestly I’m offended by some of these comments. This is not a joke, as some of the comments would suggest. I wish a show like this had been around when my now ex and I were still together. I caught my husband carrying on a relationship with a younger woman online. I was completely devastated and I wish I had someone there to help us see the unhealthy behavior we were participating in online. Perhaps we would still be together had there been an outlet like this to help us work through our issues.
    If someone wants to seek out help for their relationship, that is a GOOD thing. Who’s to say that this show won’t be helpful? No one should be made to feel embarrassed if they seek out help. Why do others need to be so negative towards others who are trying to help people? And obviously if Wendy posted this, she sees a benefit in it.
    I just think we should all quit being so quick to judge. There might be someone who truly needs a program like this, and it could be what saves their relationship. If it does, more power to the program and the couple who makes it through their issues.

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