@TheLadyE – happy belated birthday and don’t worry too much, you can’t fight it so you do stuff like share your most personal info on a chat to see whatever works for everyone else.
But it’s the shit that you just don’t expect. Like I was at the gyno and she asked me when my periods stopped – and I was like “Yo, my uterus is still pitching a fit every month I don’t give it a baby!” and she was surprised! You see my age! It’s on my chart!
Or gray nether hair. Mother of jeebus I was not prepared for that.