Reply To: Can anyone understand what it is she wants or what she is up

You don’t want to be mildly contacted and made to feel guilty by her sharing how you made her feel, don’t make people feel that way. They never forget how you made them feel. They’ll forget everything else, but they’ll remember if you break up with them graciously with respect and dignity or if you’re a coward and a liar and are pursuing other women and cheating. If you want to be single and pursue others, get out of monogamous relationships. Treat people well.

She’s not harassing you. She messaged you on face book and sent one email. I think you just need to confront your own conscience about your behavior. you can’t control her behavior, but you can choose how you behave.