Reply To: How to move forward

Yes to counseling. I don’t see how you move forward without it. it seems, if he had one option that seemed to make him happy that he chose you over, then there’s must be a reason and there is potential to salvage your marriage, but you both really need to clarify why you’re in it, what your common goals are, what your respective needs are and how you are going to work towards meeting each other’s needs and re-building trust. I think you are beyond the point of answering these questions on your own.