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Flowers in the Attic? I hope name dropping a teenage book about about an incestuous family and a horrible rape doesn’t make you quiver. Im hoping it was a different book! Are you a teen?
Yes, you flirt and talk to them and stop trying to make subtle hints like mirroring their body language. Treat him like a human. Like anyone else except maybe extra smiley? and make a gesture depending how bold you personally are. Give him you number. There’s your answer right there, for better or worse. I personally always liked ripping the band aids right off real fast and finding out sooner than playing all these subtle hinting and waiting hopeful games, which 8 know are fun but they can hurt if you let them get too fantastical.
I did have a football idiot I had a huge (solely based on looks) crush in in high school. I bet he would have, but know I am like, thank go I kept that a crush.
No man is a mind reader esp. teen boys. But if he’s attractive, of a certain age with ladies throwing themselves at him, be wary. Best of luck! You can do this!