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I feel really bad about acting cold. I liked him very much. I’ve always had the impression that he had a soft spot for me, but he never made a move so I initiated conversation about 2 months ago in order to sort my feelings out once and for all. We live in 2 different cities currently so it was all long distance but I’ll be moving soon there for work. I haven’t met him in 3 years if im honest, since the pandemic started and we were forced to do college online. Since it’s been a long while, it was bit of a shock to see how much he changed, not in a good way necessarily. He looked much more stressed and anxious than I remembered him and I was getting a bit hurt by the second because something just didn’t feel right. The hangout merely lasted an hour too, I think we both were getting awkward with each other and did not know what to do. I know I didn’t interact in the best way with him and I was thinking of telling him that because he seems troubled enough.