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February 14, 2023 at 10:41 am #1118699

I concur that there isn’t a waste of time. I did want to point out one bit I do empathize with the guy on.

“…he expressed himself that he doesn’t want to be a point of discussion to others because he doesn’t want our group to ask about what we talked about.”

I kind of get where he’s coming from, because you mention that you’ve talked about this situation with multiple (presumably mutual) friends. He may not want to become a point of gossip. He probably could have phrased his request more sensitively, but I get where he might be coming from.

That said, this to me just sounds like a crush that went nowhere. It happens. It’s ok to just move on, and you don’t need to worry about his hurt feelings. He’ll survive.