Reply To: How can I understand if he likes me?

I met my husband through work. It’s true. I still don’t ever think it’s a good idea unless you are very careful and know the company and coworkers and the culture well. You do not. You just started there.

I had worked for my company for probably 3 years before I met him. He was actually one of my superiors. I liked him for afar. I kept it to myself, but my friends could tell how I felt.

I didn’t make a move until he’d moved to a different city, I couldn’t stop thinking about him and transferred to another location in the same city and company. I called or texted him and asked if he’d show me around the city. That’s when I made the moves. We started dating on the down low for awhile until we knew it was real.

Do not cold ask him out or be flirting with coworkers right out of the gate. It’s not the time nor place.